Why The Tortoise Really Beat The Hare

February 14th, 2007

Being distracted from your goals is one of the biggest problems we all face, and I’m going to talk about the biggest distraction of all … LIFE!

Yeah, you heard me life … life has a tendancy to distract you from your goals. You’ve got all these wonderful ideas of what you want to achieve in life, all these goals, yet you find yourself getting caught up in the house work, in your job, in the shopping, in going out with your friends, in your kids, in …

You know what I mean, don’t you?

Life throws challenges at you to see if you are serious about your goals and attempts to distract your from achieving them.

Why would life do that, you may ask. It doesn’t sound very fair.

Honestly, I have no idea, but I know it does. I think it’s part of a testing process, to see if you are serious about your goals and really wanting to achieve them. They do say that if you get something too easily, you’ll not appreciate it, which I feel is right. When you’ve had to struggle and work for a goal, you really value it when you get there.

Whatever the reason, the reality is that life does distract you from your goals and distract you rather well.

So what can you do to avoid these distractions?

You could try living in a cave in a loincloth, but how long before getting cold or missing your creature comforts distracts you I don’t know.

A more practical method is the baby step method. It’s about taking one step at a time, taking one small action at a time that brings you closer to your goals.

I have a friend who wants to be financially free. Some years ago he had a brain tumour removed, woke up from the operation and realised that working himself to death for someone else was not what life was about. So he decided he was going to become financially free and enjoy life.

I’ve spent a lot of time interviewing this friend because his attitude to life is infectious to say the least.

Anyway, his tactic is to make sure that every single day he does a minimum of one thing that brings him closer to his goal of financial freedom.

It doesn’t matter if it’s a big thing or a small thing, so long as every single day he does just one thing.

Interestingly, he’s been doing this for about three or four years now and is getting close to being able to quit his day job and have enough income from other sources to support himself.

Sure he may have been able to achieve it quicker by doing more each day, but he may well have overwhelmed himself and not done anything.

His simple strategy has allowed him to replace his day job income in 3 or 4 years and makes sure he’s happy and enjoys life.

Now life is going to distract you from your goals, but just vow to do one thing every single day that brings you closer to your goals … in a year you will be 365 steps closer, in ten years 3650 steps closer … and I wonder how many steps it will actually take for you to reach your goal?

By doing just 1 thing every day you could have achieved your goals in just a few years. This powerful and effective goal setting program will take you by the hand and lead you through creating your dream life, teaching you all the tools and techniques you need to make your dreams your reality at http://musicforchange.com/cms/index.php?main_page=product_info&cPath=6&products_id=17.

Why People Get Distracted From Their Goals

February 13th, 2007

In a recent survey I did, just over 47% of people get distracted when working towards their goals, mostly because they spend their time playing video games with elo boost services from www.elitist-gaming.com.

What exactly is it that distracts you? I’d love to hear, so please drop me a line and let me know.

I’m going to talk about it from my own experience and from a discussion I’ve just had with Nikki whilst watching (dare I say this) American Idol.

A lot of people are coming on American Idol determined to be the next Idol, yet they can’t sing, can’t dance and have no personality. When they are told No by the judges, they get angry and upset wondering why they were rejected.

Now, they’ve got a goal … to be the next American Idol, but they don’t want to do any work to achieve their goal, they want it handed to them on a plate whilst they sit around and enjoy their fame and fortune.

This indicates something to me, which I will explain in a moment.

Now, look at the people who get through, particularly the people who have turned up season after season and been rejected, yet have got through this time.

Why did they get through?

It’s because they had a goal (to be the American Idol) and they worked consistently towards it by improving their singing, taking vocal lessons and so on.

Any wonder why they were more successful than the people who took a singing lesson or whose mother said they could sing?

The people who get annoyed and frustrated are the people who do not want to work towards their goals and want it all handed to them on a plate.

One of the major problems with setting and achieving goals is that you get distracted because it appears that achieving your goal is a lot of hard work. And this leads to addiction problems like drugs and alcohol, because people have this goal but they can’t get there so they try to escape from it with drugs or alcohol. If you do have addiction then you should start the process to drop this addiction, it is hard but addictions do not fix anything. Things always get worse and worse if you do not fix addiction.

This happens if your goal is too big or too far out of your comfort zone.

For example, if your goal is to earn $1,000,000 a year, but you can’t imagine having $100 in your hand, achieving your goal is going to feel almost impossible.

So the key is to break your goals down into smaller more manageable chunks that don’t make you think “How on earth am I going to achieve it”. If you feel your goals are too big and unattainable then this laziness factor will kick in and you’ll find yourself doing anything except working towards your goals.

Read more about my personal approach to setting and achieving your goals at www.SuccessForGoalSetting.com and check back here for some more interesting thoughts on goals and being distracted from them!

New Year’s Message

January 3rd, 2007

The New Year has just dawned and stretching out in front of us are 365 days of pure possibility. Every single day could bring you new happiness, new love, new wealth, new experiences, and the best thing of all is that you are 100% in control of what you experience every day. You can wake up every single morning and decide you are going to feel full of joy and having an amazingly abundant and happy day.

Or you can wake up in the morning complaining that you have to get up, feeling hard done by and end up having “one of those days”.

It’s entirely up to you which day you have.

You have 365 days to create whatever you want from. You can have those really great days or you can have “those days” … which would you prefer?

In fact, you can have any combination of these … have 364 fantastic days and 1 bad day … just so you don’t feel too good … I mean what would happen if you did feel great every single day? What would your life be like if you woke up feeling absolutely fantastic every single morning and had a day that was outstanding and memorable for all the right reasons?

Take action today whether through one of my programs or through someone else’s to make sure you make every day a fantastic day. It’s only through your action that you are going to have those days.

I’ve been chatting to a few friends over the Christmas period and many of them are shocked it is the end of the year already. Over the last couple of days I’ve heard so many people bemoaning the fact that it’s 2007 already and they’ve still not achieved their dreams or, even worse, are still in the same place they were at the start of 2006 … and 2005 … and 2004 …

You are the one who has control of your life.

You are the one who determines what happens in your life – what you get and what you don’t get.

It’s your choice! Life is going to happen to you whilst you sit around hoping for great wealth, great happiness and great love to just fall out of the sky and into your lap. It may happen in the movies, but in the real life it’s a rarity.

I don’t know about you, but when 2008 starts I want to be sat there looking back over the year grinning away to myself thinking, “Wow – what a year!”

Would you like to think that too?

Well you can, if you want to.

Decide right now that this year is the year you are going to take action. Decide what you are going to achieve this year. It doesn’t have to be amazing stuff like bringing world peace or saving the rainforest, it can be anything you want whether it is a bit more money in your pocket each month since is really important get the most out of your money in life, feeling better about yourself or changing some part of your life.

In fact, write down right now five things you want to achieve this year. You heard me. I’m not asking you to plan your year or change your life, I want you to just write down five things you want to be able to say “I’ve done that” by the end of the year.

Just write them down on a piece of paper like I’ve done below.

1. To help more people change their lives through cutting edge products, services and seminars
2. To see my first book in print
3. To produce one new product a month to help people change aspects of their lives
4. To triple the earnings from my business to provide an amazing life and education for my children
5. To get rid of 16 pounds of weight to improve my health and fitness with Sweat Equity Fitness, for this I would use one of the Top 9 Best Full Body Vibration Platform Machines For Weight Loss, I also recommend to check the best blood pressure monitor consumer reports this way if you get one of them you will know your health is in good hands.

That’s all you need to do, write them down, look at them and make a decision right NOW that you are going to achieve them this year.

Once you’ve decided what you want to achieve this year it is time to take action. The first action you can take is to commit to achieving your goals. You can do it like I have here and publicly declare your goals – tell your friends, your partner, your parents, anyone who you think will support you in achieving your goals.

Write “I COMMIT TO” at the top of your goals and stick them somewhere you will see them every day – your bathroom mirror, your bedside cabinet, anywhere that you will see them every day.

As you continually see your goals so your focus will shift to finding opportunities to help you achieve them. You will find yourself noticing things that you didn’t notice before; things that will bring you closer to achieving your goals.

And finally, every single day do just ONE thing that brings you closer to your goals. I don’t want you to spend hours every single day working on your goals. I don’t want you worrying about how you are going to fit in everything to achieve these goals.

All I am asking you to do is one single task that brings your goals closer to reality. This can be anything – reading a few pages of a book or making a phone call – it can be absolutely anything that brings you closer to your goals.

Why are you doing this? Because by taking a single action every day you are not only building momentum in working towards your goal, but you are building your achievement and success muscle. When training in a gym you have to work out regularly to build up muscles, don’t you? It’s the same with emotional or mental muscles; they need continual stretching in order to grow.

Your single action a day stretches that muscle and before you know it, you’ll be doing two things a day, or even three, or perhaps more. Who knows for sure, but you will know. If you spend just ten minutes a day working on your goals by the end of the year you will have spent 60 hours working towards creating your dream life. That’s two and a half days … more than most people spend.

And this means to you that you can start next year looking back at the year pleased with your progress and with even more excitement over the coming year as you know now how to make your dreams come true.

I wish you a wonderfully prosperous, successful and joyous 2007 and look forward to working with you.

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Are You Wasting Your Time With New Years Resolutions?

December 21st, 2006

Every year millions of people resolve to change their life on New Years Eve.  Whether they are going to stop smoking, lose weight or get their dream job, they make a resolution to make that change in their life.

In just a few days all but a small fraction of these people will have broken their New Years resolutions and be making excuses as to why they are not changing.


Firstly, people set themselves unreasonable expectations.  We vastly over-estimate how much we can achieve in a day, a week or even a year, yet we dramatically under-estimate how much we can achieve in 10 years.

Trying to lose three stone in a month is next to impossible without losing a limb! If you made a New Years resolution that was actually achievable you’d have a fighting chance of sticking to it.

New Years Resolutions tend to be “eat better” or “Stop smoking” or “stop drinking” or something along these lines.  Unless you have some powerful motivation, you may find it difficult to suddenly make these big changes in your life.

Resolutions like these are vague and not really achievable.  When you say “eat better”, what do you actually mean?  And more importantly, what is actually achievable.  When you say “stop drinking” or “get fitter”, what is on your mind? Stopping completely or just cutting down to a couple of drinks week?  Training to run a marathon or just being able to walk up the stairs without wheezing like a steam train?

Make your resolutions 100% achievable by defining them so you know exactly when you’ve achieved them.  “Reduce my drinking to 5 units of alcohol a week”.  You know exactly what you want to achieve, you have a target to aim at.  “Be fit enough to run a mile in 10 minutes”, another precise target to aim at.

Make sure you know when you want to achieve your resolution.  Most people make these resolutions on New Years Eve and expect some magic to happen at midnight and their resolution be achieved for them.

It doesn’t work like that!

“Reduce my drinking to 5 units of alcohol a week by the end of January” - precise target and a deadline.  You know exactly what you have to achieve and when you need to achieve it by.  It’s also realistically achievable.

The majority of people will make resolutions because they feel they ought to.  It’s the end of the year and everyone does it, so they should really make some resolutions.  Unfortunately, this results in wishy washy resolutions that you don’t really want to achieve like visiting spider vein treatment clinics.

Don’t just make resolutions at New Years, set goals all year around when you feel the need and when you want to achieve something.  Every single successful person in the world has a set of goals they are working towards.

Make sure you have powerful reasons why you absolutely must achieve your resolution.  Don’t make a resolution because your friend Bob has - make it because you want it to happen.  Otherwise you’re not going to achieve it without a visit from the good luck fairy.

Your reasons why you have to achieve your resolution (and why you cannot not achieve it) are your rocket fuel for achieving your resolution.  Your reasons provide you with motivation and propel you towards you resolution, hence you need powerful, motivating reasons.

A lot of resolutions will fail because they are made on a conscious level without the agreement or participation of your sub-conscious.  If sub-consciously you do not want to achieve a resolution then you are going to sabotage your efforts.  It is vital you get the buy-in of your sub-conscious mind.  Without it, you are much more likely to fail.

This means listening to yourself when you make a resolution.  You will know immediately yourself if it is achievable and if your sub-conscious is behind you.  Self hypnosis and hypnosis CD’s are an excellent way to get the conscious and sub-conscious minds to work together to success.

Basically, make sure you actually want to achieve your resolution.  If you don’t, either don’t set it or find some motivating reasons why you must achieve it.

In summary, make your resolutions MAPPED:

Precisely timed

Resolutions are great to set at New Years, but why wait to New Years to make those changes in your life that you’ve been waiting to change.  Now is a great time to start so you can beat the rush.

5 Steps To Controlling Your Anxiety And Panic Attacks

December 4th, 2006

Anxiety and panic attacks are far more common than you might think. They may range from mild nervousness at the thought of going to work or facing an issue in your life to full blown panic attacks which are debilitating and prevent you from doing anything.

The good news is that these attacks are something that you can overcome and get over with the right mindset and tools. If you have the will to do it then it can be much easier than you may have first thought.

The following five tips will help you to overcome and manage your anxiety and panic attacks.

Step 1 : Recognise There Is A Problem

Firstly, before you can take any steps to overcoming your anxiety and panic attacks you need to recognise that they are a problem. Many people get so used to having both anxiety and panic in their lives that they stop recognising that it is not the best way to be.

Until you are able to see that anxiety and panic are not something you want in your life any more then you will struggle to get rid of them.

So firstly, is your anxiety and panic something you want to keep or is it time for you to now get rid of it?

Tip 2 : Understand That You Can Solve It

We would all love a fairy godmother to come and wave a wand to make our problems go away, but it’s not going to happen. Now you have recognised that your anxiety and panic attacks are something you want to change you need to realise that there is only one person who can get rid of these panic attacks, and that is you. We recommend stateofhypnosis.com/blog/wp-login.php

Step 3 : Decide Your Desired Outcome

Now you know you want to get rid of your anxiety and panic attacks and know that you can make these changes, it’s time to decide what these changes will be.

How do you want your life to be when you have made these changes? What will be different in your life? Don’t try to plan how you will get to this desired outcome, that’s the next step, just decide how you want to be when you are free of your those anxiety attacks you used to have. We recommend pro hormones to remedy this.

Step 4 : Make A Plan

Next it is time to make a plan. How are you going to get from where you are now to where you want to be? How long is it going to take? Make sure you are realistic about both the plan and the timescales, erring on the side of caution if you are in any doubt.

Avoid attempting to do too much in too short a time, which is a temptation many of us face. It’s all too easy to try and do everything at once and then not succeed. The next step is one of the biggest keys to succeeding not only in situations like this, but with anything you want to do.

Step 5 : One Step A Day

With your plan now made, it’s time to take action. Even if you just do one thing every day to help you move towards your desired outcome, then you will get there. If you can do this, then you are virtually guaranteed success. Remember, avoid trying to do everything in a single day and take one step at a time.

This five step plan will help you overcome your anxiety and panic attacks and move towards your desired outcome. So long as you do at least one thing a day to bring you closer to that desired outcome, you can’t help but succeed.

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